Saturday, January 5, 2008

A Lesson from Lice

“Are you or is someone in your group in a desperate situation right now? Read Genesis 21:19 again. Might there be a ‘well’ for sustenance, if only you could see it? Pray alone or together, asking God to open your eyes just as He opened Hagar’s and aided her in her desperation.”
“Though I walk in the midst of trouble, you preserve my life; you stretch out your hand against the anger of my foes, with your right hand you save me.” Psalm 138:7
I read these words in my devotion today and fear struck my heart. “Not another tragedy, Lord,” I thought, “I don’t think I can handle it right now.” Then knowing the enemy is the one who instills fear, I immediately grabbed hold of the promise that God has a plan and He knows what it best. He knows how to turn anything to work for my good and He promised that He would be there - always. I went on with my day.
Less than an hour later we received a phone call from the school. You are going to laugh when I tell you what it was concerning, but my heart sank at the words that came out of Tony’s mouth. “They think our kids might have head lice!” he declared with urgency in his voice. I panicked. I freaked out. I just knew my life had ended for the next few weeks. Head lice!?!?! I have three girls - two with very long, thick hair. How will we ever manage to get rid of it and be sure it’s gone? I had not been down this road before as the parent, the one in charge.
While I grabbed a quick shower I do what I often do there and had a little chat with God. I think that works for me right now because it’s the one place where I can have complete and total solitude. I can laugh, cry, sing and weep and no one hears me but God (at least if they do hear me, they have never let on). By the time my less than 10 minute shower was over, I came downstairs with a completely different perspective. Head lice shouldn’t be that big of a deal. It’s not a terminal disease or life-threatening illness. Yeah, we’ll be inconvenienced for a few days or weeks while we do constant laundry and keep vigil over these little critters. It could be a whole lot worse. So praise the Lord we are all healthy!
And now here I sit at the end of this grueling day. Exhausted, weary, hurting because I have had hours of stand-up work to do with a very sore heel; thoroughly shampooing a thick head of hair (only one daughter had it) vacuuming, vacuuming and vacuuming, laundry and more laundry and then getting the bedding back in place so a tired little girl can finally go to sleep. I still have piles of stuffed animals that need tossed in a good hot dryer and we have ordered a better kind of shampoo so there is more work to come in the next week. But for today, my work is done. And as I threw in that last load, I remembered my devotions from this morning. “Lord, was this the difficulty I was to face today? It hasn’t been easy and certainly wasn’t the evening I envisioned. But it could have been so much worse. So if this was it, thanks for not allowing it to be more serious. And thanks for helping me to put things into perspective. That in and of itself is the most important lesson that I could have walked away with today. You are so totally worthy of praise – in good times and in bad times. And if you are there to calm me and teach me when I’m dealing with something as mundane and commonplace as head lice, how much more will you be there in times of difficulty and devastation?”
It's then I remember the last part of the devotion that reads, “Praise God because he is an all-knowing Father who hears the cries of his children. Nothing that happens to us can ever escape his notice." [from something as simple as the call about head lice to something as distressing as the call that your father is gone forever.] And that is a promise we can take to the bank – because I’ve proven it.

Eight or nine students were sent home. We weren't the only ones that had the privilege of dealing with it.

12 comments:

Leah said...

I enjoy your posts!

Karen Walden said...

What a nightmare with you all and your long hair! I am glad only one of the girls had it! (Knock on wood, we have never had it before!) Parker just starts school next year though. Preschool has been okay so far! Glad God gave you a lesson out of it! At least something good came from it! Good luck this week! I'll be thinking of you.

Angie D said...

You poor woman! I live in head-scratching terror of those things and I cannot imagine getting them out of the girls' hair. (Thank you God, for boys!) Oh well, this too shall pass...

Michelle said...

Tea tree oil, girlie. Add some to hair gel and put it in their hair every day. At least their hairline, especially if your putting their hair up. Supposedly deters lice. There was an outbreak last year in Steven's school and I started putting that in his hair and never had trouble. I even did the girls here at home in case he brought it home to them and we didn't get any. Also, do you blow dry their hair? Supposedly if you blow dry your hair for at least 10 minutes every day, you'll never get lice and can get rid of it because they can't live through the heat.

That aside -- I feel for you. Melinda and I got it in the Dominican Republic and it was NOT fun! and no, we never blow dried our hair there! Mom said "If we'd only known". A doctor at work told her about that after we moved back to the US.

Michelle said...

I should also mention you can't blow dry your hair after using a lice shampoo since they contain flammable ingredients. What I said earlier is merely for prevention.

Did the school send home their backpacks in plastic bags? If they hang next to coats and next to other back packs they really should do that and leave them in the bags for 14 days. Steven had to carry a Wal-Mart sack in it's place until we got the all clear. Of course, their backpacks hung on a hook by their coats so that's why.

I did extensive research last year when I thought it was a possibility Steven might have it. LOL

Janiece said...

As far as I know, we have don't have any critters, but I am going to keep watch (esp. since my little one loves those Derschied girls to hold her, HA)! Ya know, when we were younger it was such a big deal to have lice, now that I am older, I've decided, it's not life-threating and "this too shall pass", ugh! Hope your "fun" is over with!

Angie D said...

They're gross, but I guess we should probably save the real terror for scabies, ringworm or other nasties. Boy, that's a lot easier to say when nobody at my house has had them...

A Peek Into My Life said...

Uuuugh! That would be a trial but like someone else said, it will pass. (At least, after a lot of hard work!) :)

Sherry said...

Oh, girl! I sure could of read that this morning! I was so upset. I had heard that some girls had them and that was ok. I mean really I could deal but when I found out they suspected it a week before they told us???????? Sherry was not smiling! NONE AT ALL! We also use tea tree oil nearly all the time!

A Peek Into My Life said...

Oh & BTW, I'm glad I'm not the only one who chats w/God in the shower. :)

LaDonna said...

I've only had those lovely critters once, and that was while we were at Barberton Rescue Mission years ago! No Fun!!! And I'm also one that's glad I have BOYS with short flat top haircuts! Glad you could gain some spiritual ground from this situation.

Sherry said...

I can imagine the panic in Tony's voice!